And some of the worst texters are the best boyfriends. It's not being "high maintenance" or "needy" to want the guy to text you after the first date, if it went really well.
Just because he's not Jon Stewart over text doesn't mean he's not funny — and interesting, and sweet, and sexy, and reliable, and other non-sociopathic things — in person. A three-hour wait before he texts back — or, hell, a five-hour-wait — does not mean that he thinks you are a heinous sea crone with a salty vagina. Let's remember not to conflate "high maintenance" with "being a reasonable human who needs things." Those things are very different.
When texting a guy I know it is really frustrating when he doesn’t take the situation with as much severity.
To win, you need to show some self-restraint and understand that he may not consider messaging you as important as you do.
" don't drive yourself nuts wondering if he's got another date and how he said "SO tired," as if he had been on a date last night and it ran late. (I'm now dating someone who's also a good texter, though, so not a hard-and-fast rule.) 4.As Baniuszewicz says, “Tell me where we’re going and when you want me to be there—done.” Bottom line: be a man with a plan. Text message 101—any emotional conversation via text is an obvious no-no.There’s no excuse for not sounding charming and hilarious over text. ” and “cool” will lead her to believe that either you’re too lazy or just not funny—and that’s when your chances of scoring plummet. Yet since so many men still make this blunder, it has to be said. “Women don’t generally give you a second chance.” Here are the 10 worst mistakes to avoid when you’re texting a woman. You might not kiss and tell, but your texts are read aloud to, picked apart by, and compared with her nearest friend. Ladies can smell a mass text from a mile away—especially when Sarah and Lauren are actually roommates.