There were no other external measurements that women could determine your worth, so the best way for her to figure out if you were a male of high-caliber was by seeing how many other females wanted you.Of course, things were a lot harder in those days (imagine your grocery store being a forest, and your shopping cart being a rock that you had to stab your food with), but attraction hasn’t changed all that much.
I think some of it for the older guys is the fact that they’re no longer being led around by raging hormones which allow a guy to overlook a multitude of sins in a woman that he wouldn’t normally put up with.
A little shyness can actually be a nice quality in a man, but if it’s crippling, try to find ways to get it under control.
Instead of being overcome by anxiety, your date will probably appreciate you disclosing your shyness – and you’ll feel a lot more at ease.
When Christian men and women are considering transitioning a relationship with the opposite sex from friendship to exclusively dating, they should take a step back and truly consider if they should indeed move forward.
It is often difficult to do this when your feelings and emotions are swept away by the very thought of being in a meaningful relationship with someone you have gotten to know.